Drink water. keep your nails + toes done. go shopping, spoil yourself. chase your goals. go out to eat. take trips. dress up. try diff hair styles. have more talks with God. take more pictures. stay away from negative energy. surround yourself w/ ppl that have your best interest at heart. invest your money. save up to get a bigger bag. be selfish, but most importantly.. ENJOY YOURSELF💕
Alcohol is literally poison. I love the taste of a good champagne or a rosé or a yummy cocktail but it’s not even worth it to me anymore. I’ll stick to my tea and water and mocktails. There are literally no upsides to it. It’s horrible for your overall physical health, your skin, your mental health, and your wallet. Being intoxicated is a risk, especially if you’re in public. You’re exponentially more likely to be the victim of violent crime if you’re intoxicated, this is statistically confirmed. Don’t even get me started on the drinking/clubbing scene. You will not find any men of value out drinking, trying to pick up women. Not to sound like a puritan but it really is a culture of straight up degeneracy. Do you really want to meet new people who the one thing you have in common with is getting drunk? You also run into the possibility of getting drugged, assaulted, or even kidnapped especially if you’re not hyper aware of your surroundings. It looks like fun when you’ve never experienced it before or if you’re in a new and exciting place but trust me when I say you are not missing out on anything.
If you want to meet new people, go to conferences, hobby meetup groups, exercise or hobby classes, networking events, volunteer groups, country clubs, sporting events, gallery openings, orchestras, the ballet, concerts, historic tours, museums, workshops, farmer’s markets, the aquarium, even going out to an upscale restaurant by yourself with a good book or with some girlfriends would be a way better option. You don’t need alcohol to have fun or make new friends, I would argue it actually makes it harder to do those things.
